Monday, April 20, 2009

Doubt and Insecure.

Doubt and Insecure.

Girls always have doubts and an insecure feeling all the time. Constantly asking question in their mind. Did they selected the perfect choice? Or there is another better choice which is yet to be found? Or did they make a correct decision? Is their lover the right one? These are a few question which are frequently playing inside a girls mind. Well, why this occurs? The simple reason is due girls complicated psychological thinking which is playing here and there constantly.
Well, another explination is due to the past exprience which the girl had been through. If a girl had gone through a bad time for the first few relationship and things didnt really go well, their brain will program in such that they generalize that boys are such and such. And thus resulting that they will feel insecure and always doubt their future partner due the bad exprience. Is this a good thing? Some will agree. Some will deny.

It is definately a very good mechanism for them to protect themself from bad relationships in future. But, with an insecure heart and constant doubts, will the girl give all her heart to love someone whom really loves her? No. The pros and cons is there and the debate is going on every second.

Bad relationship will eventually break off.
Bad exprience will teach us to be better prepared.
However, in Love we cannot prepare for everything.
Because we humans is not perfect beings and we will
be lost in translation when it comes to a thing call Love.

What we can only do as humans is trust our hearts and
Follow our heart to love someone unconditionally.
Love someone for who they are.
Accept who he/she is.
Try to understand him/her day by day.
Never doubt one's love towards you.
Be truthful toward your lover.
Stay loyal to your lover no matter what happens.
Be contented but not Demanding.
Dont love someone blindly but love someone maturedly.
Listen everything that you lover says.

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