Friendship

朋友 Part 1
为什么在这个世界里，有时你会感到很寂寞，感到你四周没有你认识的人了。
感到你对世界很陌生。我自已也不明白。难道过了中5后，朋友就会失散，各走各自的路了？
认识少少七八年的朋友就将失去联络吗？友情是什么？童年的友情就酱结束？小时跟同学从小学到高中，从朋友到恋人，从好友变仇家，从仇人到朋友。这些美好的记忆从小到大是难忘的。但是这些记忆是不能接下去吗？就因为一个Spm后，大家又各自的梦想就Say Goodbye? 要认识新朋友是怎样才能呢？偶然？同班？一起上班？真不知道。有些人朋友多，有些却少得很。外向的人才朋友多吗？经过多天仔细的观察和小研究。只要是俊男和美女和外向的人的朋友一定多，为什么？难道世界就是看外表了吗？不是看真正内心的美了吗？以前我们的祖先所讲的義气到了哪？世界真的是酱了吗？I mean why not everyone can be frens? Is that so hard? Be friends doesn't harm you, but why now days people are so COMPLECATED?
交朋友那么难吗？

Why sometimes you’ll feel lonely where you feel you’re alienated and nobody is around you? I don’t understand why we’ll feel like this sometimes…
Is it when after our secondary school, we shall be apart and thorn away by each others different dreams and carreer? The friendship that is build since childhood and primary school just gone like this? From primary school to secondary school.. From friends to lovers and from best friends to mortal enemies. Even from enemies to pals. All these wonderful memories which are build since childhood cannot continue anymore? Just because we leave secondary school, means we tell our friendship goodbye?

How to meet friends? From work, study or by accident? I really don’t know..Some have a lot of friends, some have a few… Only extroverts can have a dozen of friends? After days of observations at places like Mp and Dp, I find that those pretty girls and handsome guys have bundles and bundles of friends. WHY? WHY? Only outer beauty counts nowdays? Why we only be friends with those rich, famous, cool, pretty and handsome? Instead of judging someone by his/her inner beauty, we now judge people and befriends mainly because his/her outer beauty. I mean why not everyone can be friends? Is that so hard? Be friends doesn't harm you, but why now days people are so COMPLICATED?
Is MAKING FRIENDS THIS HARD?

朋友 Part 2
朋友...就是这两个字么简单吗？朋友有那么简单地成吗？现在科技的发达，先有手提电话，然后是有网际网络，ICQ，MSN，FRIENDSTER， Facebook，Mitoto 还有很多很多..如果人家Sms一个给你问问可以交友吗，虽然年纪有区别但是就一个信息回“好呀”然后就变朋友吗？社会变得这么开放了吗？不然就是在Facebook,Friendster 一Add你就send comments就算是朋友了吗？是什么东西导致这个情形出现？好奇心？贪玩？还是为了一时的爽？


这个东西很抽象，也很实际。世界有这么地矛盾吗？世界已经360度转点了。为什么现在没有像牛顿，爱迪生，Leonardo Da Vincci的伟大科学家的出现了？我们进步已经到极限了吗？世界越来越进步，我们人类就越来越退步吗？退步到交友变成一个很困难的事？还是退步到交友随时随地都可以呢？

Friends is it this easy? Is befriending someone so easy? Now with technological advancement, we have handphone, then the internet after that here comes ICQ，MSN，FRIENDSTER， Facebook，Mitoto and many more other website which we can make friends. Is when someone sms you and ask whether to be friends and then it’s friendship? Even you have age gap and other differences but by only 1 sms or call you can be friends with someone which is completely a stranger to you? Is this the things teenagers now tend to do? Or is it just because the wild feeling you wanna taste due to eagerness and just because you wanna have some fun?

Friendship can be very real and very abstract.. Is it so complicated? The world has turn inside out and upside down. Why there is no more grand scientist like Newton, Thomas Edison and also The Grand Leonardo Da Vincci? The world keeps on evolving but is human getting dummer and dummer till making friends is a problem to everyone? Or till we can make friends wherever we go?

p/s：Anyone who see this blog, if any comments or any thing to add on on this particular topic, feel free to e-mail me or msn me @ evilbaby_91@hotmail.com